It’s a New World (i.e., I’m a Dinosaur)

The internet has dramatically changed — and will continue to change — the world. At times, it makes me feel like a dinosaur. I’m not alone, but that doesn’t make it any better.

Two systems that are replete with dinosaurs are health care and education, although the former is well ahead of the latter in catching up to the 21st century (mainly because there is more money to be made in health care).

If you want to get a flavor for what I’m talking about, take a half hour and watch this presentation on internet trends by Mary Meeker.

Keeping up or, in my case, catching up, seems like an impossible task. My generation didn’t grow up with the internet. Yours will, Vera. Your parents’ generation was the trailblazing generation. I expect much more to come from that generation. I don’t have such high expectations from mine. I can’t begin to imagine what yours may deliver.

One disservice my generation and the Xers provide to younger folks is interpreting the world, and guiding kids, with a 20th-century mindset based on 20th-century experiences. In short, many of us fail to appreciate how the world has changed and is changing. Consequently, we’re preparing many of our children and grandchildren for a world that no longer exists. Fortunately, it’s hard to keep young people down. Many see what’s happening and are responding.

I came to believe that I’m not technologically savvy enough to do my students justice in the classroom. Few professors and teachers are. But that will change as the dinosaurs retire or expire. Until then, most of our schools and colleges will remain behind the curve. This is one of the most critical reasons no millennial should outsource his or her education to our formal education system.

Enough said! Watch Mary’s presentation and, if you’re really enticed, read her slides.

Wrong Has Become Obsolete

I was struck in the face with this reality last week. I was surprised that I was surprised. I thought I had a good grasp on how culture had changed. But it turn out it’s changed more than I had thought. That realization was very unsettling.

Last week I discovered that the word “wrong” had become obsolete. Well, perhaps not entirely. But almost. Continue reading Wrong Has Become Obsolete

Playing Your Hand Well

You have amazing opportunity, Vera. You have a great family. And you were born in the United States, a land of unparalleled opportunity. In short, you’ve been dealt a strong hand. Now all you have to do is play it well.

I wouldn’t profess to tell you how to play your hand. That’s your call. But I’m confident you’ll do just fine.

The best I can do is share some of the things I’ve learned over the years about playing one’s hand. They’re personal to me, so don’t try to blindly transfer them to you. Nonetheless, here are a few: Continue reading Playing Your Hand Well

Resolve

The New England Patriots mounted an historic come-from-behind win in Sunday’s Super Bowl. I would have rather seen the Atlanta Falcons win, but I can’t say I really cared. I didn’t.

I don’t like the Patriots. But I do respect and admire some¬†aspects of their character.

The thing I admire the most is their resolve. They never quit. They never feel out of the game. They always believe they can come back and win. Hence, their amazing record.

It’s not that they have the best talent (although they do at the all-important QB position). But they do have the best resolve. And, over and over again, they prove that resolve matters. A lot. Probably more than anything.

Well, perhaps not more than anything. I believe you have to love what you’re doing. If you don’t, resolve probably won’t be possible.

There is a lesson in all of this for us, Vera.

People Are People But Cultures Are Different

When you’ve lived as long as I have, you’ve met a lot of people — people of many walks of life and personalities. You end up liking some more than others. But one thing you come to realize is that people are people. We have different personalities and aspirations, but, in the end, we’re constructed the same. Cultures, on the other hand, are a different matter. Continue reading People Are People But Cultures Are Different

Is Mediocrity Good Enough?

For the vast majority of my life, I thought mediocrity was a bad thing. But then I moved into the world of higher education and was told I was wrong. A college professor acted as if I didn’t know the meaning of the word. He lectured me that mediocre is average and, because most people are average (by definition), mediocrity is not a bad thing.

Of course, I didn’t need a someone with a Ph.D. to explain the meaning of the word to me. But I suppose he thought I did because he could tell that I didn’t think colleges, professors or anyone else for that matter should settle for mediocrity. He was there to remind me that I was wrong: that mediocre was just fine.

It got me to thinking: maybe he was right. Perhaps mediocrity is O.K. Everything is relative. Why not simply accept mediocrity? Continue reading Is Mediocrity Good Enough?